Forming Habits that Create a Healthier Lifestyle
…habits are important, because we cannot always rely on being able to motivate ourselves in the day-to-day situations life may bring. When that motivation fades away, discipline will be what remains because you're forming habits towards creating routines.
What’s a habit?
A habit is a repeated action, one that has become almost automatic or second nature. However, a habit is not to be confused with a routine. Habits typically involve little to no conscious thought, while routines typically require some intention and discipline.
Additionally, a habit is a practice you repeat so regularly that it can be hard to change. Most times, you may not even realize the habits you've created (good or bad). Examples in this case could be biting your nails when you’re worried, grabbing a sweet treat every time you visit the grocery store, cheating yourself of enough sleep nightly, or skipping your warmup/cool down during your workouts. See? It could be a variety of activities we do OR possibly do not do.
Let’s explore a few different types of habits and how to make, or break, them…
Here, I’ll just be focusing on how to form 4 different types of positive habits: Mental, Physical, Social and Productivity. These habits are important, because we cannot always rely on being able to motivate ourselves in the day-to-day situations life may bring. When that motivation fades away, discipline will be what remains because you're forming habits towards creating routines.
Mental Habits:
Mental habits involve our thought-processes and cognitive behaviors.
'Cognitive' is a term used in psychology to describe anything related to thinking, learning, and understanding…. simply put: how our brains work.
These habits (when positive) can lead to a less stressful mindset, more productivity, and even an increased state of happiness or optimism in our lives.
Examples of positive mental habits:
Eliminating negative self-talk
Determining your “why” to help create a constant source of personal motivation
Prayer, meditation, devotion, and/or guided breathing exercises
Physical Habits:
Staying consistent with positive physical habits will help improve health and overall lifestyle.
Certain habits may promote a longer life by decreasing the risk for unwanted illness and health concerns. Here are a few examples:
Flossing, in addition to brushing your teeth
Applying and reapplying sunscreen daily
Scheduling and staying on top of your medical appointments and screenings
Completing regular workouts, eating well-balanced meals & snacks, and drinking enough water are three important routines to acquire. Here are a few habits that will help:
Scheduling time into your daily calendar to take a midday walk to encourage (or begin) movement
Packing nourishing snacks for work or school
Carrying a water bottle with you daily that has motivating quotes and ounce measurements listed to help you keep on track with hydration
Social Habits:
This one is sometimes tough for me, but oh-so important. Maintaining and nurturing relationships takes a lot of intentional effort. I have found that I must be selective with whom I spend my time. Remember we want to build habits that are positive, making a wrong choice can be detrimental to our growth and health.
Relationships with significant others, friends, family members, and co-workers require give & take, honesty, constructive criticism (giving & receiving), time spent together, and the ability to listen… and that’s just a few of the requirements.
Once these relationships are established (and done right, with effort), the rewards can be truly immeasurable. We all need others on some level, in some capacity. Make sure to do the work to find your people, then strive to provide them with what they may need from you, as well.
Productivity Habits:
To be truly productive, we must create habits that eventually become routines to aid in reaching the goals we’ve set for ourselves.
This does not only apply to a professional environment, but includes our personal lives, as well. There are some habits that may help you better manage your time and accomplish your goals.
A few of these habits may include:
Waking up an hour earlier each day
Creating written daily, weekly, monthly to-do lists or plans
Eliminating known distractions and staying focused
It is important to remember that habits will oftentimes need to be adjusted - old bad habits will need to be broken.
Sometimes, the best way to break bad habits is to replace them with better, more helpful ones. Be mindful and acknowledge the true reasons you feel it necessary to make the change…. break the habit. Another reason a habit may need to be adjusted is because it has successfully become a routine. Once that happens, you can move on to creating more habits to help you on your quest for a healthier lifestyle. Reach out to those who can help hold you accountable to your goals. Good candidates for this role would be those who engage in the habits and routines you strive to attain for yourself.
Additional resources:
Here is an excellent article that goes into even greater detail about habits, if you’d like a little more information.
Practical Psychology. (2019, February). What is a Habit? (Definition and Types of Habits). Retrieved from https://practicalpie.com/what-is-a-habit/
Ways to Stay Motivated During the End of the Year
As the year comes to an end, it is not unusual to feel discouraged, un-motivated, or even a bit down. I truly hope that one or all of the activities shared here will serve as a guide to keep you focused with your goals and your mindset.
“If you are working on something that you really care about, you don’t have to be pushed. The vision pulls you.”
The year is coming to an end, and maybe you’ve hit a slump… Perhaps, you’ve already achieved the goals you set for yourself this year and feel like just coastin’ on through the remaining 44 days of 2022. OR, it could be just the opposite, you’ve missed the mark and don’t have the energy (nor interest) to step it up for completion of your goals!
I, myself, seem to be experiencing a blend of both mindsets. While I’ve hit most of the targets I set for myself in 2022, there is a pull for me to just ‘chill out’ and relax until January… and that is quite unusual for me. Maybe it’s because this year has been so FULL of activities with my high schooler, my middle schooler, my business, my Girl Scout troop, family experiences, and navigating my own changing health as I get older! And actually, that last item should be enough for me to realize I mustn’t stop but instead keep right on going! Time waits for no man, so if we want to live our best (and healthiest!) lives, we had better stay focused on the tasks at hand!
Let’s jump right in on ways we can make this happen and end our year feeling victorious!!
Acknowledge your successes:
One of the mistakes or missteps we often make is not acknowledging how far we’ve come or just how much we’ve accomplished. Let’s take the time to do that this year. Grab your phone, or pen and paper, and write down just how awesome you are! Really, do this! This activity alone can be a refreshing review of your accomplishments over the past year and serve as a reminder that you are capable. What’s a few more days in the year? Well, nothing but an excellent opportunity to wow your family, your boss, your clients, your peers, and even yourself!
Prioritize your responsibilities and tasks:
After you’ve taken inventory of your accomplishments, make time to prioritize what is left to be done. Prioritizing doesn’t mean that you have to absolutely finish all of your tasks, but instead, it means that you will order them in degrees of importance and necessity. Believe me, I know that some of our responsibilities and tasks are non-negotiables. I am also aware that sometimes we take on more than necessary, because we feel that we cannot say “no” or “not at this time”. If they aren’t already, those two responses are must-haves for our own peace of mind and sanity.
Once you’ve prioritized what will NEED to be done by the end of the year, set a plan in place to reasonably complete those items. Think about the big picture, but also break it down into a manageable, working, adjustable list. The key here is that your list remains a working list, as we know our lives change daily with unexpected interruptions…whether they be pleasant or not-so-pleasant interruptions! :)
Keep moving your body:
Oh my, now as a Personal Trainer, you already know how important this particular focus is to me! According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office of Disease Prevention and Health Promotion (the organization that sets the recommendation for how much physical activity we need to be healthy), “adults need at least 150 to 300 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity, like brisk walking or fast dancing, each week. Adults also need muscle-strengthening activity, like lifting weights or doing push-ups, at least 2 days each week”.
And remember, while I would love to have you as my own client, you do not have to seek out a gym, personal trainer, or group fitness classes to get your exercise. Make a commitment to just start moving or move more! Your movement could be as simple as a walk around your neighborhood, taking the stairs when possible, or even parking your car farther from the store when doing your shopping. Keeping focus on physical activity will not only benefit your health, but it can also give you a great release from your daily routine and even all of the busy-ness and (often) stress we can face during this time of the year.
Allow yourself rest & care:
Y’all! The end of the year, and all of its potential for gatherings with family, friends, food, and drinks can be very fulfilling; however, it can also add to your list of responsibilities and tasks! So, we’ve got to allow ourselves to get adequate rest, while still getting care and finding enjoyment in that care. The amount of sleep that we need is truly individual, but www.sleepfoundation.org recommends 7-9 hours for adults aged 26-64. I have found my sweet sleep spot to be between 6.5-7 hours. I know that it sounds very specific, but I’ve worked very hard to determine that time frame! :) It makes a world of difference each morning when I’ve gotten the right amount of sleep for my body and mind.
When it comes to caring for yourself in an enjoyable manner, those specifics are up to you as well. However, I recommend choosing activities that are simple but bring you great joy. Think of things like catching up on a good book or new music, finding a great new candle, enjoying a new recipe, or even just a long shower or bath. Personally, when I engage in care-filled, joyful acts for myself, I wish to be alone, but you may prefer to find ways to spend time with a spouse, best friend, or any other person special to you.
Reward yourself:
Finally, consider rewarding yourself at the end of this year! This doesn’t have to be anything elaborate or expensive…. then again, if you can do that, why not?! :) Only you know what may feel like a reward for you making a plan, sticking to it, and finishing out the year strong!!!
Remember, as the year comes to an end, it is not unusual to feel discouraged, un-motivated, or even a bit down. But my most true hope is that one or all of the activities above will serve as a guide to keep you focused and on-track with your goals and your mindset. I believe in US! Let’s finish out 2022 victoriously!!!
6 Thoughtful Holiday Gift Ideas - For Yourself and Others
When done with a grateful heart, giving can also be good for our health. It promotes a sense of trust and cooperation and can be a form of stress relief. Here are 6 ideas for giving this season….giving to others, and yourself as well.
‘Tis the season for giving. And, as you may have heard before, it is better to give than to receive. Not only does giving encourage social connection with others (people or a cause), but it can also give us a feeling of contentment and gratitude. When done with a grateful heart, giving can also be good for our health. It promotes a sense of trust and cooperation and can be a form of stress relief.
The purpose of this particular blog post is to share ideas for giving this season….giving to others, as well as yourself.
““No one has ever become poor by giving.””
Gift #1 - Share the gift of health & fitness
You know I had to begin with this one. And, while I would love for you to purchase personalized services from me, there are so many FREE ways to connect with others and get moving. Consider inviting a friend or loved one on a neighborhood walk or a hike through a local trail. This is an awesome way to spend quality time, get some fresh air, and get your bodies moving.
Gift #2 - Share the gift of gratitude
Acknowledge someone who has been a supporter, encourager and motivator in your life. If possible, reach out to that person today and say thank you, again. The simple act of saying thank you can truly brighten someone's day and be just what they need to keep doing more of the same. Consider sharing your thanks with a handwritten note.
Gift #3 - Prepare and share a homecooked meal
Are you an expert in the kitchen? Or, maybe you have a specialty dish or dessert that everyone loves! Food is always a welcomed treat to give and receive, especially the thoughtfulness of a homecooked meal.
Gift #4 - Share your passion with free lessons
What is your area of expertise? Have you considered teaching or training others to become more skilled in that area? Offering one to two free lessons could be just the inspiration someone may need to lift their spirits and provide a new interest. Scrapbooking, crocheting, knitting, photography, dancing, or playing an instrument are a few ideas that come to mind.
Gift #5 - Give the gift of babysitting
Have a little extra time on your hands? How fun would it be to share some of that time with a friend or loved one’s children! If you have the space, the amenities, and patience, I’m sure it would be a welcomed gift for a parent well-deserving of some time off.
Gift #6 - Don’t forget the “Me” in Merry
Remember to take care of yourself during this holiday season. With as much excitement and joy that comes along with the holidays, there is also the potential for stress and anxiety. Make sure to take the time to do what you need to for yourself.
I’m going to spend a little time here describing a few different ways that you might practice self-care for the holidays.
Take a nap: The hustle and bustle of the season can be tiring. Rest when you need to, rest whenever you can. However, keep your naps short and sweet. According to www.sleepfoundation.org , naps lasting 10 to 20 minutes are considered the ideal length. They are sometimes referred to as “power naps” because they provide recovery benefits without leaving the napper feeling sleepy afterward.
Just say no: This was a tough lesson for me to learn, but I finally mastered it…for the most part. Saying yes all of the time is not beneficial to our health and wellness. Although you may have the time, money, and energy available to give, the cost may still end up being too expensive for your wellbeing.
Watch a cheesy holiday movie: Sometimes seasonal romance movies or television shows are just what we need to escape reality for an hour or two. You know the ones…. a corporate executive is given an assignment to return to her small hometown to assist with a family matter, when she reunites and falls back in love with her high school summer camp boyfriend. Ha! Don’t act like you haven’t seen that storyline (or one similar) before!
Get some exercise: Take a walk, join a group fitness class, catch a workout online, etc. Exercising is a great way to improve your mood due to the increase in endorphin production.
Bake: That’s right, I said bake. Yes, I realize that I just suggested exercise one bullet point above! The two options do not have to be separate from one another. Our focus must be on living a balanced life, not an all-or-nothing approach, which can be dangerous. I always love baking during this time of the year, for myself and for others. Finding a recipe, gathering the ingredients, and putting it all together can be very therapeutic…. especially if it happens to taste good!
Remember, gift giving (whether to yourself or others) is something that should not be a chore, best coming from the heart. When we give, we should be giving willingly without wanting something in return. That goes for our self-care, as well. We do not need to set to-dos or tasks in place to be completed before we take care of ourselves. Rather, we should do what we can, break to take care of ourselves, then continue on with a renewed energy. Let’s move forward with gifting ourselves with care, so that we can better serve others. Happy Holidays!
Health-Minded Tips for July 4th Weekend
While you’re planning and enjoying your weekend, I just wanted to share a few reminders with you…
It’s Fourth of July Weekend, the second official holiday of the Summer season, with Juneteenth now being the first1!! Sunshine, beaches, pools, cookouts, cocktails….all of your summertime favorites!
While you’re planning and enjoying your weekend, I just wanted to share a few reminders with you. With the past year that we’ve experienced, I would not ever advise you to cut out any of your favorite activities or foods. However, I still encourage you to be safe and mindful with the choices you make. Remember, as excited as you are to get back outside, there are millions of others doing the same. Be aware of your surroundings, your body, and your mental wellness, as you get back to your newer “normal”.
Below are my tips to enjoy a fun & active July 4th Weekend:
Run or walk a local Fourth of July race! Even if you’re not ready to jump back into the crowds of an in-person race, there are plenty of virtual options available. Join the fun and find a 5k or 10K race to kickoff the long weekend. And, while the satisfaction of simply completing the race may be enough for you, most races will send you home with an awesome completion medal, or even a fun t-shirt to commemorate the event!
Go for a swim! Or, just hit the water. I’m not an official swimmer, even after more than one set of swim lessons as child, but I love the water! Whether it’s a public pool, a lake, the beach, or in your own backyard, get in that water and cool off. Most times it’s a free activity, except for maybe a parking fee at the beach. I’d say that’s well worth it for a few hours of fun in the sun, in the water.
Check out some local fireworks! There are many locations that offer drive-in shows and displays. In our neighborhood, we are lucky enough to be able to walk to the end of our block and see numerous shows across the city. It’s absolutely gorgeous for about two hours….not so much on into the early a.m. with the booms, but I digress. Ha!
Try a new recipe to throw on the grill. If your temperatures have heated up like they have here in Southern California, you probably don’t want to turn on the oven! The grill is a much better option and is so very versatile for your menu options. Kabobs are always a fun, quick, and tasty option for an outdoor meal. A kabob is a dish of created with pieces of meat, veggies, and even fruits roasted on a skewer or spit. I’ll be trying a new chicken sausage and veggie kabob this weekend, myself. I may just have to share the recipe with you soon.
Keep drinking water! Sometimes, we can mistake our thirst for hunger. Drink water at regular intervals throughout the day, even if you don’t feel thirsty. This can aid in preventing dehydration, which will assist you in knowing the difference between thirst and hunger. It will even assist with your body’s processing of those tasty cocktails you may decide to enjoy!
Whatever you choose to do, however you choose to celebrate, enjoy yourself. Continue to take care of yourself and your loved ones, count your blessings and practice gratitude for all you have. And, please, stay safe!
Ways to Incorporate Fitness Into Earth Day!
Earth Day is a day to demonstrate support for the protection of the environment. A set day (if no other) for all of us remember the environment in our busy lives. A day that reminds us to…
Earth Day is an annual day to demonstrate support for the protection of the environment. April 22 is the designated day for all of us remember the environment in our busy lives. A day that reminds us to continue to do the little things that help out our environment.
Here are a few tips on how to incorporate our fitness routines into Earth Day activities and celebrations:
Work in the garden:
Add colorful beauty to your home’s landscape with flowers or grow edible plants of fruits and vegetables for your household to consume
Burn calories and work up a sweat, along with working leg & arm muscles during the planting, pruning, and harvesting phases
Earth Day Tip: Flowers attract honeybees and other important pollinators like butterflies, wasps, birds.
Take a walk or a hike:
Hit the pavement in your neighborhood or check out a new trail in your local community
Get those steps in to contribute to healthy bones, muscles, and joints; not to mention improving mental wellbeing by reducing symptoms of depression
Earth Day Tip: Take the time to pick up litter to help beautify your neighborhood & preserve the beauty of the local trails.
Ride a bike:
Take a recreational ride, a workout ride, or even a ride to work
Increase muscle strength and flexibility, improve joint mobility, and strengthen bones
Earth Tip: Bike riding means less vehicles on the road, which leads to less smog emission & less pollution.
Head to the beach or lake:
Go for a swim, try kayaking or canoeing, or even do your workout on the sand next to the water
The mere sight and sound of water can promote wellness & relaxation, right along with a number of health benefits that come with muscle building and cardiovascular fitness
Earth Day Tip: Take a few minutes to clean up the litter that is usually scattered amongst the beauty of our favorite beaches and lakes.
Workout outdoors:
During the daytime, enjoy the bright sunlight by completing the workout of your choice on the porch, the patio, or the park
During the evening, workout safely by candlelight - yoga or stretching; or, try a moonlit workout in the backyard
Earth Day Tip: Using less electricity saves energy by consuming less power, consequently conserving the earth’s national resources.
