3 Ways to Bounce Back After a Setback
Whatever you may be going through at this time is only temporary. A “valley” that you may be experiencing at this moment won’t last forever, change is just ahead once you reach the top of the mountain…keep going. Keep the faith, you will…
A Setback Is a Setup For a Comeback!
Maybe you’ve heard that quote before….. a book, an inspirational poem, a sermon from your favorite pastor. I first heard it many years ago around this time of the year. A visiting pastor gave a sermon with that title during Resurrection Week revival at church. While I cannot remember the details he shared, the concept definitely stuck with me to this day.
Whatever you may be going through at this time is only temporary. A “valley” that you may be experiencing at this moment won’t last forever, change is just ahead once you reach the top of the mountain…keep going. Keep the faith, you will come out on the other side victoriously! But remember, it may take a little work on your own behalf... read below as I explain.
As if the past few years haven’t been enough with the pandemic, war, national civil turmoil, increased illnesses, lost jobs & lost lives, we still each have our own personal battles that we are dealing with. Sometimes it seems that just when one particular situation is under control, something else pops up to knock us off our square. Feels like you cannot catch a break! I mean, seriously, what did you do (and to whom did you do it) to bring on these disruptions to your well-oiled, well-planned out life??!!! Well, don’t take it personally, you’re not alone. It’s all part of this thing called life that we are truly blessed to be living. So, what do we do???…..
Ways to Bounce Back
Set clear & precise intentions
Decide what you want your comeback to look like, what it should entail. Pray about it, then take action. That may mean speaking the words out loud to a loved one, making a list, creating a vision board, or even recording yourself speaking your comeback intro fruition.
And be specific…I’m talking down to the nitty-gritty details. Include each step you will take, today, tonight, tomorrow, next week, and even next month. We’ve got to be intentional about coming back strong, armed and ready to meet and defeat any obstacle that stands to get in our way.
Acknowledge what you may need to do differently
We are not perfect. *Gasp! We all make mistakes and poor choices. That’s all part of this life we’re living that I mentioned above. But it's all part of growing and getting better, bouncing back even.
Once you’ve learned a lesson or found the error in your ways, action may need to be taken on your part. This might include switching up your usual mode of operation, apologizing to someone, retraining yourself on a particular topic, or even just holding yourself accountable for your own private thoughts. Lay it all on the line, but at the same time don’t be too hard on yourself. Show yourself some grace throughout this process. Challenging situations can often teach us what we have left to learn.
Take care of yourself
Take your time and take care of yourself. There’s no rush in healing and regrouping. I mean we do want to come back stronger, right? Read and reread motivational, inspirational, or encouraging words from others. Earlier, I mentioned prayer because it has most definitely helped me through some of the most difficult trials of my life. However, I also know the importance of reading biographies, and certainly autobiographies, of those who have been there, done that…. specifically meaning that they may have experienced adversity and difficult times, but they are willing share their ways of overcoming.
Other ideas include getting outdoors, getting moving, and in turn, getting inspired. Wake up early to catch the sunrise with a brisk walk. Listen to the birds chirp to be reminded of the beauty that surrounds us. Complete a workout to sweat out any worries and get your heart pumping with anticipation of the change to come.
If I can leave you with anything, it’s to remember that difficult roads lead to beautiful destination. Be optimistic about your bounce back, your outcome could be something new and more exciting than you ever even imagined possible for yourself.
New Year, Better Me
We’ve made it, 2021 is right around the corner….. tomorrow, to be exact. And, what a year 2020 has been! I hope this article finds you and your loved ones healthy and well. One thing I know for sure is that we each have the power to make this coming year better for ourselves by planning and setting an intention.
We’ve made it, 2021 is right around the corner….. tomorrow, to be exact. And, what a year 2020 has been! I hope this article finds you and your loved ones healthy and well. One thing I know for sure is that we each have the power to make this coming year better for ourselves by planning and setting an intention. We mustn’t leave anything to chance, especially those things in which we can control. Specifically, I’d like to share about the control we have over our eating and nutrition goals.
“A new year doesn’t necessarily have to mean a new you, but it can definitely be the opportunity for a better you!”
Let me ask you a question…. Have you ever heard the quote, “You can out exercise a bad diet”? Well, it is quite true! I bring this up, because usually during this time of the year, we set up goals to workout out more, lose weight, fit into some particular outfit, or even exercise more. However, sometimes your exercise and weight loss efforts may be in vain, if you do not follow-through with the proper nutrition focus.
One of my main goals this coming year is to focus on proper nutrition, including centering my attention on macronutrient review and portion control. Have you ever taken the time to really dig in and take control of your nutrition? I mean, really take the time to plan your meals. That would include a fair share proteins, fats, & carbohydrates, and even figuring out how much to eat and when to eat it.
Please remember, do not place undue pressure and unrealistic expectations on yourself during this journey. One of our goals should be to keep things simple and minimize stress, not the opposite. Keep in mind that any positive changes or adjustments you make for yourself are just that, for YOURSELF, for you! Also, keep in mind that you do not have to go on this journey alone. I’m willing to share and guide you forward as you make these life changes. With that being said, I'll be providing my clients with weekly check-ins and personalized, detailed information on the following:
easy-to-understand nutrition education
food diary templates
guidance for reading food labels
snack and hydration options
and more!
I should let you know, no matter whether you choose to join me or not, just strive towards making the changes you need to make for yourself and for your health. If you choose to join me, just click the link below to reach out to me. We will discuss your options and how I can help! A new year doesn’t necessarily have to mean a new you, but it can definitely be the opportunity for a better you. Do the research, make the changes, and move forward into a blessed 2021.